The cost of college has monopolized your money funds and left you with little cash for romantic pursuits. Dating is undoubtedly expensive, as all those romantic restaurants can really add up. But you don’t have to scrimp on affection and romantic gestures if you do it right. Here are some ways you can master the five languages of love on a budget:
Quality Time
Time is the most valuable thing you own. Fully use your time with your date to create unforgettable memories. Find out what your date enjoys most. Is she an avid nature lover? Venture out into nature and go on a hike together. Does he crave cultural experiences? Look up days when museum admissions are discounted for students or are free for a special event. Research music shows and find out which ones take place at free venues. Is her foodie status on another level? Hit up a farmers market for less expensive, local ingredients you can cook with. Figure out what makes your date swoon and create a date around what he or she loves.
Gifts
Impress your date with a thoughtful gift. A good bouquet warms a woman’s heart and can be found for a reasonable price from online retailers. Another small gift could be a piece of jewelry or artwork made by a fellow schoolmate. Hang out near the art building and ask the students if they would do any spec work or give you a deal on some artistic goods.
Ladies, as cliche as it is, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Bake him some cookies as a gift or make some special confections. One of the easiest candies to make is caramel because it only requires four ingredients.
Words of Affirmation
Words are powerful. They communicate your innermost feelings and intimate thoughts. Let your love interest know how you feel by writing her a handwritten letter and send it through the mail. Receiving physical mail is a pleasant surprise, since most communication is casually completed via text, email or Snapchat.
Girls, keep it short and sweet. If you get too gushy, you might intimidate your guy. Gentleman, choose your words carefully and don’t be afraid to get a little flowery. Write your girl a poem that is genuine, playful or humorous, and she will appreciate your effort and creativity.
Acts of Service
Take care of the one you love. Pay attention to his or her physical and emotional state. Is he stressing out over finals and studying rigorously? Drop off dinner for him or create a study care package so he can fuel up for the big test. A supportive gesture works wonders for your relationship and shows your partner that you truly care.
If she has a family emergency, be on call for her and act as a reliable individual that will help her pick up the pieces. Being there is free for you and invaluable for your significant other.
Physical Touch
Have you ever seen a “Free Hugs” sign? The message behind this sign is that human connection and physical interaction doesn’t come at a high cost, even though it provides great rewards. Physical displays of affection will make your girlfriend or boyfriend feel desired. Kindle the flame with physical acts that fuel your emotional connection. Shower your love interest with hugs and kisses whenever you feel inspired or sense that he or she desires affection. Massages are also a wonderful way you can physically connect. They are a selfless act that will make your partner feel wonderful.
